I’m a Public Speaker and Transition Coach! (who happens to be Transgender)

A little about me: I broke down about two years into my transition, spending days on the phone with the suicide hotline, because I had minimal support, zero coping skills, and no plan. I realized how we almost never talk about coping skills when people are going through transitions!

I dedicated my life to learning how to go through life transitions and thrive.

I became a speaker and coach to help people create empathy for Transgender individuals and to also build identity development skills for people going through major life transitions. This work is beyond just gender transitioning, this is about taking control of your life!


My goal is to have companies create safer work environments and for individuals to feel more empowered in their life.

I am also a husband and Dad who loves plants (especially my aloe and lavender ones), good food, and reading. Currently, I'm reading Essentialism and am loving it! Highly recommend!

-James

James Barnes who is a Transgender motivational speaker

About James

"James is such an articulate, compassionate speaker."

- Feedback from Gong speech

Speeches

Discovering Who You Really Are

Transform your life and reach your full potential with the power of identity development with James! He will share his inspiring journey of discovering and embracing who he truly is, not only as a Transgender man, but as father, husband, and more. Learn how to define and live by your values, overcome limiting beliefs, and build a strong sense of self. Whether you're looking to achieve success in your career or personal life, James will give you the tools you need to take control of your identity and reach your goals. He speaks on how others can cope and thrive through major life transitions such a becoming a parent, marriage, a new job, or a company pivoting into a new direction. Reach out to start your journey of self-discovery and identity development! and how he was able to rebuild his life into one that truly reflected who he really is.

Learn the importance of empathy and how to cultivate it in the workplace, not only for Transgender employees but anyone going through a major life transition. James will discuss the benefits of empathy in the workplace and share practical techniques for developing and practicing understanding in your daily interactions. This workshop is perfect for anyone looking to improve their emotional intelligence and build stronger relationships with their colleagues. By the end of the one hour presentation, you will learn LGBTQ+ terms, pronouns, the Transgender experience in and outside of work, and the concept of intersectionality.

Transgender 101

Fireside Chat

James will have a conversation with a host answering pre-determined questions. This is a more casual approach which can feel more warm and welcome while engaging employees & attendees versus a speech. James will dive into his own personal experiences, create a flowing conversation about empathy, and leave your audience with tools to make an impact! Twilio, Gong, and Comcast have used this option and received outstanding feedback!

Empathy was created here:

James Barnes who is a Transgender motivational speaker

Jeffrey- Integrated Marketing lead

“James led a presentation on behalf of True Colors – Del Monte’s LGBTQ+ Employee Resource Group, and brought really valuable and practical ways educating our group on how to become an advocate and ally for the LGBTQ+ community.”

Del Monte

Hailey- CPO

“This was such a wonderful way for Netrush to kick off Pride Month! Everyone came away with more knowledge, understanding, and most importantly, tools to be a better ally to the LGBTQ+ community.”

Netrush

Carly- Camp Director

“We loved having James at camp to do a training on LGBTQ+ for our staff members. He provided a safe learning environment for our staff to ask questions and broaden their knowledge on how we should support our campers.”

Tamarack Camp

Charmagne - Senior
Paralegal

“The presentation given by James, The Trans Coach, has enhanced our professional goals at Zendesk, as well as advancing our equality knowledge base.”

Zendesk

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